In age of digital technology, social media has become an integral part of our everyday routines. We spend hours each day browsing through posts. We update our profiles. We interact with loved ones. It acts as essential means for staying up-to-date, entertained and connected. Yet recent studies suggest that overindulgence in social media can have profound impact on our psychological well-being. Although social media provides wealth of advantages, it’s crucial to recognize and manage potential health and happiness hazards it poses.
The internet has transformed way we communicate. Platforms such as Facebook Instagram, Twitter and LinkedIn have become significant aspects of our existence. However, amidst these benefits, there’s increasing concern regarding negative effects social media can have on our mental health. As our time on these platforms increases more individuals are beginning to observe adverse effects it can have on our emotions. Research suggests that too much engagement with social media can result in mental health problems such as anxiety depression and sense of loneliness. It is important to recognize how online interactions affect us. Social media can create a false sense of community. Individuals may feel connected online but isolated in reality. Balancing online and offline interactions is crucial for overall well-being.
Where Does the Dark Side of Social Media Come From?
Comparison and Envy
One big effect of social media is how it makes us compare ourselves to others. Sites like Instagram and Facebook often show the best parts of people’s lives – good times their wins and what they have. This makes us think everyone’s life is perfect, but that’s not always true. People usually don’t share tough times their failures, or everyday stuff that’s not so exciting.
When we scroll through these carefully put-together highlight reels it’s easy to start feeling bad about our lives. We see others having great days. But we might not show the ups and downs of our lives online. This can make us feel like we’re not good enough, jealous or just not happy. Studies have shown that these bad feelings can mess with mental health. They can make us feel less confident and more likely to be depressed.
Also, social media means we’re not just comparing ourselves to friends and family. We see lives of famous people influencers and even strangers. This can make us feel even worse about ourselves. This never-ending stream of perfect lives can make us see ourselves in bad light, thinking our successes and happiness don’t matter as much.
Anxiety and Stress
Social media is like two-sided coin. On one hand it offers the convenience of instant communication. It allows users to find things with ease. On the other hand, it’s perpetually inundated with updates notifications and content to consume. This constant stream can induce feelings of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). It compels individuals to stay abreast of friends’ activities. They wish to avoid missing out on significant conversations or gatherings.
The fear of missing out can lead to heightened anxiety and stress. Each notification, like or comment triggers a dopamine surge. This is the feel-good chemical that fuels the desire for more. These fleeting moments can become addictive yet they often come at cost. Individuals find themselves preoccupied with maintaining their online presence. They aim to accumulate more likes.
The pressure to remain constantly online and responsive can also result in burnout. Distinguishing between personal time and social media time is challenging. This can lead to a sense of overwhelm. Over time, exposure to this environment can lead to chronic stress. This stress has been associated with mental health concerns like anxiety and depression.
Disturbed Sleep Patterns
The impact of social media on sleep is another significant concern. A large number of people like to browse Instagram or Facebook using a smartphone or a tablet right before bedtime. This behaviour can result into the altering of natural body clock that is used in cycling between sleeping and being awake. The light produced by these screens which include blue light reduces the release of this hormone melatonin which is Important in controlling sleep. This suppression contributes to making it harder for one to sleep.
Beyond physiological effects of screen exposure, content consumed on social media can also play a role in sleep disturbances. Interacting with emotionally charged or stressful content at night can leave the mind overstimulated. This makes it challenging to relax and fall asleep. Additionally habit of checking notifications or mindlessly scrolling through feeds during the night can result in fragmented sleep. This further intensifies feelings of fatigue and irritability.
Poor sleep quality is closely associated with mental health issues. This includes anxiety and depression. Insufficient sleep impairs cognitive functioning. It also reduces emotional resilience and increases susceptibility to stress. Therefore, the negative impact of social media on sleep may create a further fallout on overall mental well-being.
Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is huge problem on social media. People can hide behind screens. They say cruel things without feeling shame. It differs from regular bullying. Regular bullying happens in specific places. Cyberbullying can occur anywhere. Additionally, everyone can see it.
People who get cyberbullied often feel terrified, exposed, and alone. Since social media is public, mean comments, rumours, and bullying can spread quickly, even worse. Plus, because stuff stays online, the bullying can keep going, making it hard for the person being bullied to move on.
It can really mess with someone’s head. Victims of cyberbullying are more likely to report feelings of depression, anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts. This is also connected with physical stress, joined with headaches and stomach-aches, with sleep disturbances from constant processing and handling of online bullies. Indeed, for many people, the emotional wounds inflicted by cyberbullying persist even after the bullying itself has stop
Unrealistic Expectations
Social media shows us that we should look like this, be fit, and live like this. Influencers and celebrities share pictures that are highly edited or filtered; hence, the perfect life is just a click away. The pictures, coupled with the posts of living like a million bucks or working out hard enough, can leave people with a feeling that they have to live according to these standards. When people are bombarded with these unattainable beauty standards, they turn to body dissatisfaction, shame about themselves, and negative self-talk. So many people, especially young ones, think they have to look like that to be loved or respected. It can produce harmful behaviour—eating too little, excessive exercising, or dangerous cosmetic things.
Steps to Strengthen Mental Health in the Digital Age
Set Boundaries
Setting some really clear rules about how you use social media will do so much toward minimizing the impact of social media on your mental health. This could mean that you separate areas in your home from where screens are allowed and where they are not such as the dining area or your bedroom or it could mean that you only allow for use of screens for a certain amount of time in a day such as during the morning only.
One might also try to cut down the time she spends on the social networks. These days almost all of these sites have options to set time for it and alarm you when you have been online for too long. There will be more time to spend on the activities producing positive emotions if the time with the screen is reduced, whether it’s exercising, working on a hobby, or communicating with friends in person.
In this case it is notable that creating a limit in your use of social media will prevent stress and tiredness.
Practice Self-Compassion
People really need to be more understanding and gentler with themselves because the numerous stresses in people’s lives nowadays are times for them to be online. They also lament that with the social media around, one always feels that they are competing with others and they have to be the best always.
When popular culture tells you that you are not good enough or you messed up on something, being kind includes being nice to yourself. It is more on the realization that different people go through their particular ordeals and that is okay to be not perfect. If only you are kind to yourself, you will no longer desire to feel as worst as others instead you will start feeling better about yourself.
I simply mean reminding oneself that what one sees on social media sites is often not real life, and that the site does not reflect, for instance, how good or bad one is. It also means being logical and not going crazy about the number of likes and comments, aiming at personal development rather than the number of followers.
Making Real-Life Connections
While social media offers convenient way to stay in touch with others it is important to prioritize real-life connections. Face-to-face interactions provide emotional support. They deepen relationships and contribute to the sense of belonging. Engaging in activities that foster these connections, such as joining clubs or participating in community events can help combat feelings of loneliness. Isolation can be reduced through these efforts.
Building strong, supportive relationships offline can also provide buffer against negative effects of social media. These relationships offer source of encouragement validation and perspective. They can help counteract pressures of online culture.
Take Breaks
Taking a break from social media says much about taking care of an individual’s mind. Well-spent breaks, whether they last for a couple of hours, a whole day, or even longer, allow us to retract and, thus, revitalize our minds. These gaps may aid in decreasing stress and anxiety brought about by being always online, and they present an opportunity to work on different activities that feel good.
You can look after yourself, get involved in some new activity, be a part of nature, or meet friends and family. All this gives a chance for clarity from the online world and helps one in thinking about how they actually feel about social media.
Seek Help
If using a social network is interfering with your mental health, then maybe it’s time to get some professional help. Having trouble working out a better way to use social media and struggling with the mental health issues you may have can be addressed with the help of therapists and counsellors. In particular, cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) has clearly proven to be effective in enabling people to change their negative thoughts and find better ways to cope with stress.
Asking for help is one smart move toward owning up to your mental health—the one that will get you in gear with abilities and, bottom line, empowerment to surf the online universe’s ebbs and flows more positively and mindfully, allowing you to take back control and have a healthier relationship with social media.
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Conclusion
Social media is a great tool to stay connected, but at times, the excessive use might drudge on mental difficulties. It’s smart to set boundaries, be kind to yourself, have real-life friends, and take breaks from social media in order to keep things in perspective. There is nothing wrong with noting that one feels low because of social media, and it’s good to do something to restore mental health. If you are largely getting depressed by the medium, you should not hesitate to seek help from any therapist or a counsellor.
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